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Does anyone have advice for arranging contact for DS (20 months) with an emotionally abusive ex?

I care very much that my son has good contact with his father but am deeply concerned for his welfare at the same time. Most of the abusive behaviour happened in front of DS and there have been instances of neglect, including marijuana being eaten by DS which had been left lying around by his father.

Do I have a right to limit contact in these circumstances until EX-P is more stable? (he had threatened to commit suicide if I leave and has also punched himself in the face during arguments). What is appropriate contact for a child of this age and what is the law? Does he have to stay overnight? Does his father have a right to take DS abroad to see his family (12 hour flight away)?

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Hello,  I'm afraid this is

Submitted by emily on Tue, 2009-06-30 19:49.

Hello,  I'm afraid this is way out of our league - you need proper professional advice and must go to social services.  Well done on trying to keep your child's relationship going with their dad, but get all the help the 3 of you need to make it work!    Lots and lots of luck Emily