Here are some Links to sites, services and products that you might find useful, helpful and entertaining! Nothing's here without one or other of us having used it ourselves, visited it or been recommended - scroll away there's quite a few goodies, will raise a smile at the odd selection if nothing else!!

Here's a magazine called OneUp we've found that's just for single parents and step parents. You can subscribe to an online version Definately worth a look!

Here's a service you'll need if you want to go back to your maiden name Change Your Name By Deed Poll - Deed poll legal have been changing names for 10 years. If you need to change your name or your child's name then we can help. Our expert advice and knowledge will guide you through the process of changing your name. Our low cost deed poll's are accepted by all the relevant agencies and organisations. We are the name change experts.

Family Mediation in Wandsworth is a firm of SW London based mediators who are trained to help you and your ex come to agreement about the terms of your divorce. Email: mediation@adamfam.co.uk Tel: 020 3087 2836

Here's a new link for you - The White Company is a favourite of ours, all lovely to look at and they've got a sale on!!

But then a good night in is always welcome.... The idea for a link to Lovefilm.com came from my ex who swears by it for him,a nd for fun searhcing, ordering and then watching when he has the children

Don't EVER let it be said that we'll stand between a wine lover and a bargain....!!!! Visit Oddbins and see what they've got in the tipple department..

They say you have to kiss alot of frogs..... Might as well start getting through them here at singleparentmatch.com!!! This site's huge and has in its favour the fact that it's full of single peopel that won;t be freaked when they hear you have children!!!

SingleParentMatch.com - the best dating site for single parents!

armchair advice provides advice, information, support and resources for people who are experiencing relationship problems or marriage breakdown.

As for the nice man at Halfords who fitted my brake lights for a few quid in about 2 minutes without making a fuss - what a saviour for a 'young' lady with no strong man to ask to do it - they're doing loads of practical stuff now like fitting, adjusting and getting rid of scratches - all v reasonable and highly recommended by me....

Divorceaid Is an independent group of professionals who volunteer their time to help you. The site has articles, 24 hour helplines, divorce solicitors, a section for children, a website for teenagers, experts and books.

The Avon lady goes on-line! Avon has absolutely shedloads of stuff and special offers. Have a look, and think about becoming a rep. I know people who make a living out of it, and others who do it for a bit of extra...

If you're ready to jet off somewhere may I recommend GO Travel Insurance that I used for going to France last year for the children and me as being amazingly straightforward to do (spoke to no-one trying to sell me more) and v cheap (cheap enought o make someone who usulaly assumes that the worst WON'T happen to buy travel insurance!! happy Holidays!!

And if money's tight, but a family holiday, or an adventure with friends is what's needed then look what we've found - a site that has youth hostel type accomodation to stay in around the world, including the UK for the odd hearty weekend??? BOOK IT!!!

Collaborative Family Law GroupA new way to resolve divorce and family disputes with dignity and respect. Divorce takes an immense toll. Time, emotions and financial resources are often sacrificed. There is another way, a less adversarial, more solution-oriented alternative. It is collaborative family law.

Resolution Resolution which was formerly known as The Family Law Association is an organisation of 4,700 lawyers and family justice professionals who believe in a constructive, non confrontational approach to family law matters. Resolution also seeks to improve the family justice system.

My best friend (don't tell Kate) got fantastic bikinis from Figleaves and looked marv in her holiday snaps! Undies too, just in case one gets run over by a bus and wants to look decent for the doctors!!!!

Single Parent Dating - Kids No Object, the largest UK introduction agency for single parents and all unattached people seeking family life. Lots of useful information on single parent dating and our unique dating services

Martin Lewis' Money Saving ExpertThis is the UK's biggest money site, with over a million users every month due to its binding principles that it's 'Free, Ad Free, Independent, Unbiased and Journalistic'. And all the analysis, recommendations and MoneySaving logic still come directly from Martin.

And in loving memory of some hilarious Ann Summers Parties! Go on, time to be re-born, saucier (that goes for the boys too, don;t think you get off lightly there's stuff there for you to sport as well). Or of course there's the rabbit....(wink wink)

Tooled up is what every single mum needs to be! If he took the tool box and no-one else is showing any interest in doing your DIY tasks then get a grip of your knickers and do them yourself - how hard can it be? (as the actress said to the Bishop!!!). This site has absolutely everything.