Q1 Make a list of words or phrases that describe your life now

Q2 Which of these words are as a result of being a single parent? Which are would you be like, or be doing regardless of being a single parent?

Q3 What do you see as being the main differences (good and bad) between you and your married friends with children? Write each difference on to its own post-it note or piece of paper.

Once you’ve done that put each difference into one of 3 piles:

1) You are envious of
2) Make you pleased to be a single parent
3) Fall in between these 2 piles

Q4 Make a list of words that describe your children

Q5 List the things you are doing well at

Q6 List the things you’re not doing so well at

Q7 What are your children doing well at?

Q8 What are your children not doing so well at?

Q9 Look at what you’ve written for you and the children. Which of these things has the biggest effect on how…